Question 1: Is it okay? to be okay.. and how?
- thegirlintheparalleluniverse
- Jul 21, 2020
- 1 min read

Social Media is telling ,me each day how I am not good enough, How I am not trying hard enough and achieving enough goals... in the midst of the social pressure and the philosophy that one must always stay positive I often end up wondering if I am right on time or I am lazy enough to make an excuse about not being able to make it as big as other people or others who think they are better..
Then it occurs that its fine that they think that they are better but it actually bothers me because somewhere even i think I am not good enough..
I am a believer of the phrase "in between difficulties lies opportunities" and try to overlook beyond just problems in a situation but it sometimes just pierces my heart.. How my 200% is never enough and how someone's 20 % is more than enough. I am not talking about teh capacity of their work being better than mine of course this isn't about them being better than I am ! It is about the guidance that they have, the circumstances that they are in, the backup that are attached to them, the fearless approach comes either when you are not bothered by the loss or when you got nothing to lose.. The space in between is where everything okay has to feel okay.. and it is here to stay.. Is being okay.. okay?
Gives you a lot to think about.
And true.
Very well written