How business taught me to deal with a heartbreak!

Heartbreak must always be backed up by self-care, motivation and gratitude.

Each time I listen to that song which suddenly makes so much sense to me after someone sang it for me. It says stay stubborn with your love, your dreams but to be honest each one of us is only looking for that one hint that lets them rethink about NOT giving up on a dream, on an aspiration, on a person.

Most positive speakers say that you must not be willing to give up on what you really want but with multiple discussion and a piece of advice that I have concluded to is that Love, relationship, work everything is like business it clicks in the first time and it keeps happening all over again each time and if it doesn’t, one person can not be chasing and promoting their thing, feelings, work ways, strategies etc.

What I mean here is let’s assume Sales, you may have the best peaches in the world the ripest, juiciest peaches in the world you want to associate with someone and increase your productivity now in this situation there are 4types of people:

1. one who see what and how right are you in terms of business and give it a shot immediately,

2. (the ones that you should avoid) They would act interested and ask you multiple questions that raise hope but they have multiple people wanting to do business with them and these ones would never take you seriously, would never acknowledge how important your dream, ambition is!

3. Uncertain kinds, they would know what they want but won’t let you tell you how to take it even when they need help. They would always stay uncertain and hanging

4. Then there are people who know it all, no matter how amazing your peaches are there are people who wouldn’t just like peaches and it’s okay 🙂

Look for the 1st kind and assure the 3rd kind if it clicks great if not, let go!!!!

When in business with my experience I have learnt to let go of the idea that you have to convince people, Put across your Product/services/ideas if people believe what you believe there would be no chase, no convincing and no after thought, there is no harm in being someone’s second thought but don’t be anyone’s after thought.

This also has alot to do with the ‘Why’ of your business, feeling, efforts !!!

In one of Simon sinek’s videos he says people don’t buy what you sell or do. People buy WHY you do it.

So when it doesn’t click, it wouldn’t ever click if you think it will click make your offer and wait for the person to get back patiently but if the person acts up like the 2nd kind let go of the idea to be ever associated with them. The entire idea of business collaboration is to have a value add and not waste more effort and cost on something which will never be fruitful similarly understand that the entire idea of Personal associations is not only give but also take, the givers have to set a limits because takers rarely do.

Check who is your potential value add, who wants to make you a better person treat your heart as theirs and if not, let go of the idea of holding back and pursuing because you would never invest in a place where there is no ROI.

In everything, pursue your why and see the right people grabbing the front row seat to see you right there in the spotlight.