Another page from the strong! How to be stronger

Another page from the strong!

Listening to Miss Independent and living as a strong smart fine looking woman we often come across people who want us! but importance is not in being wanted Being in love/liking makes you ignorant of people’s shittyass face

Its like when you like someone you tend to fall in love with the image that you create about them in your head.

Stop that!!

You’re making excuses for them And defending them in your mind

So the problem is that you need to hold people to a higher standard and stick to it.

Today while working on this new Multinational project my sophisticated Strict boss made a suggestion and asked me of what I thought of it and altered it basis my suggestions right there I realised my capacity of being a human is alot more than being a wife or a person in love.

Julliet was miserable to stay in love for a man that was her choice let me make a choice where I am katy perry from the dark horse and not taylor swift from lovestory

While you work hard on a job which keeps you so occupied that you don’t get time to get rid of hair on upperlip.

Do you really think thinking of how to make a man love you is something that should be on your mind? Is it worth it? We have all been there where we googled

How to make a man like me’ How do I ask my crush out How do I let him know that i like him Cute Goodmorning texts for him How do I know he likes me and other bullshits

Rather your focus should have been

How do I cope up with stress How do I get better at multi tasking How to do time management Different detox recipe How to make effective decisions How to give more time to parents How do I make sure that I am happy How do I be more determined What are the best things to do for yourself

Babygirl, Be a Queen bee don’t settle for a fly that is effortlessly just swinging around your way.

You know your worth and keep it higher because someone who must pursue you has to meet your standards you aren’t enrolling people for job but you got to understand that every relationship is of equal efforts to be successful just like your career.

You may shift your focus from emotional to rational behaviour from time to time but you got to balance it out and never just prioritize either of this.

Before loving someone love yourself, before thinking if you are worth someone else make sure you know and raise your own worth !!!

Self respect > Self worth>anything ever!!

One night after a small heart break my mommy told me ‘What’s yours will come to you, if it has gone and its yours it will come back’

This hit me hard in all the right ways

Stop falling in love with the image that you create about a person fall in love with their reality! If noone told you that let me tell this to you. And if their reality hurts you, trust me you gotta let go..